Family Pic
Friday, July 10, 2009
26 weeks
I'm still swelling a little in my ankles and feet, but not as much as a couple of weeks ago. Really the only complaint I have is my ribs and upper back. I'm sore all day, and by the evening they really hurt.
I think both girls (at different times) had the hiccups this week. I could feel their entire bodies move. It was very cute, even though Allison's were at 3:30 in the morning.
Craig has tried a couple of times this week to feel them move, but he couldn't feel anything. I could still feel them moving, but I guess they just weren't kicking quite as hard.
We wanted to make sure to do the hospital tour in July while we know I'm still mobile. Turns out they only do them a couple times a month. So, we are scheduled to go on Monday. I'm actually excited about it because we'll have a lay of the land, so to speak. We'll also learn all about their safety procedures and what to expect when it is time to have the girls.
That's pretty much all from us this week. Craig's still working on the tile. He wanted to take today off to work on it, but he ended up having to go into work for a few hours. I've been taking pictures, and will post them as we get closer to being done.
Friday, July 3, 2009
25 Weeks - 100th Post
This is probably something that most people wouldn't even give a second thought to. But for those of us that have been through the heart ache of infertility and witnessed the pain others in our support groups have gone through, this is a very big deal.
Of course there are a million things that could go wrong between now and their birth, and another million that could happen upon their birth, but the point is... they will be born. They can now survive outside of my body, should they need to. Granted there would be a considerable amount of medical intervention to support them, but they can survive.
We will be able to see them, hold them, take pictures of them and just love them. Its something that can not be taken away from us now. We are having twin girls. Two sweet, sweet baby girls. We can dream about how they will look. What color will their eyes be, how much hair will they have, will they look so much a like that we won't be able to tell them apart, will they have subtle differences that only those closest to them will notice, or will they have big difference so everyone can tell who is who?
The girls are growing normally, right on schedule. We've seen through ultrasounds that their hearts, brains and spinal cords are forming perfectly. Most of the hard work of development is done, now all they need to do is continue to get bigger and stronger. I'm already so proud of my girls.
I wonder if Allison going to be our wild child who tries to do what she wants when she wants, like she seems to be doing now? Is Emmily going to be our cuddle bug, always worming her way into tight cuddles like she does in my ribs?
I realize that some of our family and friends have already allowed their thoughts to flow along these paths, but I haven't much. The instinct to protect my heart until this week came was too strong. But this magical week is finally here. The past two days have been incredibly emotional for me. The release of fears, the acceptance of birth. It has been simply overwhelming.
Our girls are coming, and we only have 11 more weeks to wait!
Friday, June 26, 2009
24 Weeks
Allison has been my squiggly worm this week. She is moving all around, and I often can see her head sticking out on one side or the other. I've had more ice cream this week than I normally do, so I think she must be like me and really like it!
Emmily has been hurting me all week. Which means she's moving around up in my ribs. I've pretty much concluded that I'm going to have sore ribs for the duration of my pregnancy.
I don't know if its due to the higher temperatures, just being pregnant, or a combination of both, but I have started swelling more. I have to make sure I don't keep my feet down and in one position for long periods of time.
This along with one side or the other of my ribs hurting, has made it more difficult for me to get a full night of sleep. Honestly though, I'd go through all of this a hundred times again if it means the girls are safe. I'm just happy that we have two healthy girls growing and that as of now (knock on wood) we haven't had any big complications.
Friday, June 19, 2009
23 weeks
Emmily has been hurting my ribs often this week. I had another level 2 ultra sound yesterday and got to see just what it is that she is doing. She is laying completely stretched out from one side of my ribs to the other. She didn't feel like letting the tech get a profile picture. She kept shaking her head, like she was saying no, no, no. Then she started stretching her head back as far as she could. So the pressure I'm feeling in my ribs his her moving her head and shoulders around. Here is Emmily's profile picture.

I think it looks like she has her Daddy's cheeks. Craig, of course, thinks I'm crazy and can't really see anything. This is the first time she's let us get a profile picture of her. Last time she was laying on her belly.
Allison was being a silly girl, too. She was curled up in a ball with her head down. Only moving a little bit. Then when the tech went to take her sister's measurements she moved around and had her head up. She kept poking her head onto the screen like she was trying to hit her head on her sister's. She is definitely taking up the most space and turning all around. Here is her picture from yesterday.

We, or should I say Craig, it still working on getting all the carpet up so we can lay our tile. We picked up the tile last weekend and Craig unloaded it all into the garage. He's only got the carpet under the furniture left in the great room, then the hallways and living room left. Most of the work will come in getting the tack strips up along the walls. That is the goal for this weekend; get the carpet and tack strips up so the tile can start going down next weekend.
I hope all the Dads have a great Father's Day.
Friday, June 12, 2009
22 weeks.
I did have a doctor appointment this week. Nothing big, just another check-up. This is the first time they actually measured my belly. I assume it was the right size, because they didn't say anything. Then the doctor used the Doppler for the heart rates of both girls. This is also the first time they've done that. Up until now, they've used the ultra sound (which they didn't do this time). Anyhow, fairly uneventful. I do, however, have an appointment for another level 2 ultrasound next Thursday in the afternoon.
This week, Emmily has discovered the back side of my rib cage. She must've been kicking me a ton the past two days, because that area is really sore. I don't really feel her movements much anymore, just the side effects of them. She is fully in my ribs now. Allison, on the other had, I feel almost all day long. She moves and kicks and punches all the time. I think she might be our little cheerleader.
We will be spending the weekend and the rest of the month tiling the house. Well, I really won't be much help. We actually get to go and pick up the tile today. Very excited to get rid of the carpet!!
Saturday, June 6, 2009
Friday, June 5, 2009
21 weeks
We decided on name spellings this week. We will have Allison Cate and Emmily Sophia. If you scroll down to post of the ultra sound pictures, Allison is Baby A and Emmily is Baby B.
I picked up our 2nd crib this week. It has been discontinued, so there was only one left in town. Of course it was at the store on the opposite side of town from me. That's okay though, I was able to meet a friend for lunch afterwards. We met at the mall. I waited on some couches outside Dillards. In this mall, Dillards has the MAC make-up counter outside the store, next to the couches where I was waiting. The MAC Counter was playing music, kind of loud, not obnoxious, just loud. Well, the girls LOVE IT. They were both kicking and moving like crazy. I was only there about 10 minutes, but they kicked and moved so much during that time, that I was actually sore! My Mom said to remember this when they are teenagers and start turning up the radio.
That's about all that really happened baby wise this week. They are just growing and getting stronger every day. My next check-up is Monday afternoon.
We did buy tile for the house this week. It won't be in until Friday, next week. Which is good, because we have to get the carpet and vinyl pulled up first. Of course by we, I mean Craig. Its really not something I can do right now. Maybe I can sit and scoot on the vinyl and try to pull some of that up. Probably would take 3x as long to get done that way though.
Saturday, May 30, 2009
20 weeks
First, I knew my ribs had expanded. It was inevitable considering there is a baby in them, but wow!! My rib measurement went up 3 sizes!!! My bras have been getting tighter and tighter, and I just wasn't having any luck finding anything to fit me. I went to Motherhood Maternity and got measured, and it all made sense. They don't make bras in the actual size that I need. LOL! Only my ribs have expanded, nothing else, so far. So I got two inexpensive ones that are the proper rib size. It is so nice to not have my ribs crushed anymore.
I had no idea that your stomach muscles actually split during pregnancy!! I have no stomach muscle control at all any more. And I just simply can't bend. Trying to unload the dishwasher and pulling clothes out of the dryer made me so sore. I'm definitely going to need Craig to help me more with anything that involves a lot of bending.
We decided on names this week, as well. Just not the spelling of the names. We are planning on going with Alyson Cate and Emilee Sophia. Basically we took our top 4 names (Alyson, Emilee, Sophie and Katie) and rearranged them until we came up with first and middle names that we liked. I'm putting the spellings that I like here. Craig would like to go with Kate for Alyson's middle name and I think he's leaning more towards traditional spellings for their first names.
All in all, I think I'm very lucky. I was worried at first with all the research I had done that said all your symptoms and possible problems are doubled with twins. But really, I have felt pretty good. I don't think any of my normal pregnancy symptoms have been worse than a singleton pregnancy. I've definitely had to slow down sooner than I probably would've otherwise, but that really isn't a big deal.
We will take another picture this weekend. I still haven't posted my 18 week picture because we are having problems with our big computer. After taking the picture I'll try to put them on a portable device and upload them from the laptop.
Friday, May 22, 2009
19 weeks
We still don't have names for these two precious girls, but we are working on it. Right now we have a list of 6 names we agree on. Now we just need to pick our favorites from there.
I am feeling them move around more and more. Usually I can tell which one I am feeling, too. Baby B is up in my ribs, and will likely stay there since her sister is blocking her from moving down. Baby A has moved up the the middle of my tummy. They are getting stronger, too. The insides of my lower ribs have been pretty sore the past few nights. Baby B must be practicing her dance moves or something.
Only a couple of new things this week. I noticed just how easy I can over do it. I was out of the house for a total of 3 hours running some errands. By the time I got home I was sore and exhausted beyond belief. So I definitely need to learn to take breaks even when I'm feeling okay. It is really easy to cross the line of over doing it in a short time period. The other odd thing that happened is that I noticed one day that my left foot started to swell just a little bit one day. I was sitting on the couch for a while and didn't get up and move or change positions. It went away as soon as I propped my feet up. So need to make sure I'm not in any certain position for too long.
I started having some back/hip issues a few weeks ago. I've even had to visit the chiropractor. Basically the joints where my hips attach to my back are moving out of place. Sometimes it hurts, sometimes it doesn't. Its just a little scary because when it happens, I have a hard time lifting my left leg. Just because it won't move. Apparently this is all completely normal. My joints are loosening up and the babies (or at least one of them, probably baby A) just happens to put just enough pressure in that area. I have noticed it more when I'm in a sitting position rather than a standing or laying down.
We do have an 18 week photo, I just haven't gotten a chance to load it to the big computer (I've been using Mom's laptop.) I will try to get to that in the next few days. Have a great Memorial Day everyone!!
Friday, May 15, 2009
18 weeks
I seem to feel Baby A mostly in the evenings when we're are watching TV. Baby B seems to be our night owl. Last night I woke up a little after 3 to use the bathroom, and could feel her kicking up a storm. At first I though, how cute. Then I realized that in a couple of weeks when I can feel every move she makes, it won't be so cute to feel her moving around at 3 am.
We are still working on picking out names for these two. So far we've decided against all the names we had liked earlier in the pregnancy. And Craig really doesn't like my favorite name. So it might be a while before we can really decide.
All in all a very exciting week! We got to see them and find out they are both girls and I can feel them move!
Tuesday, May 12, 2009
Ultra Sound Results
The pictures pretty much speak for themselves. The first one is Baby "A" which is a GIRL! You can see her nose and lips, then the little shadow below her belly is a little leg kicking.
Both girls measured about the same size. Baby "A" is about 7 oz, and Baby "B" is about 7.3 oz. Both hearts and both spinal cords look great.
Friday, May 8, 2009
17 weeks
This past week I also started experiencing indigestion. So far its generally starts around midnight. A couple of Tums before bed has been pretty helpful. But twice this week, I had it during the day, and wasn't really able to eat much for dinner. Both of those days I woke up a couple of times a night to take more Tums.
I had a doctor appointment yesterday. They are pretty boring. I had my weight, blood pressure and urine checked. Then a quick ultra sound to see the heart beats. I guess the Doppler doesn't work to well for them with two. The doctor said this is probably the last time he will be able to get them on the same screen during an ultra sound, so he gave us a picture.

We also have our big ultra sound on Monday. This is the one where they will look at the babies' hearts and spinal cords. And if they both cooperate, we will get to find out their sexes. Which is very exciting to me!! I was hoping Craig would discuss names with me so we can start calling them by their names after the ultra sound, but he won't. I guess a few more days won't hurt too much. We do have a couple we discussed right before the IVF, but I have a feeling we're going to need a new one, too.
I will update again after our ultra sound on Monday.
HAVE A HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY!
Thursday, May 7, 2009
Piper is at it again...
Usually in the mornings when I let her out of her kennel she says good morning by rubbing up to my legs and getting all kinds of scratches and pets. Then she runs to the back door so she can tackle Shadow as they go outside.
This morning was a different story. Instead of saying hi to me or Shadow, she immediately ran into the closet and came out carrying Craig's socks in her mouth. The only thing I could figure is that she saw Craig throw his socks at the hamper the night before, but he missed because the lid was closed. My guess is that she remembered that and went to see if he had picked them up or not. She got lucky.
I couldn't get her to give up the socks for anything. She slipped past me at the back door, so I couldn't get them then. She didn't even let go of them for her morning "potty" break.
Once she came back in the house she tried everything she could to get me to chase her to try and get the socks, which I simply won't do. I just went about my regular routine. When I walked into the family room to turn on the morning news, she came up to me and put the socks right in my hand, then ran off.
Wednesday, May 6, 2009
New Slide Show
Friday, May 1, 2009
16 weeks
They say (you know who "they" are, right?) that the second trimester goes by faster than the first, and by the time you are half way through it, you won't even remember the first trimester. Well, I'm only 3 weeks in and I would have to agree, time is flying by. And, I have to think really hard to remember those early days of morning sickness and overall aches and pains.
We were able to sell Craig's Dad's Blazer this week. They came and picked it up on Wednesday. Very nice people, it's always a good feeling to sell something to people who you know will appreciate it. Now we have room in the garage to finish cleaning out the babies' room.
I've spent most of the week looking into strollers, infant car seats and cribs. I've decided on a stroller and carrier style, but not on the print. Cribs have been a little more difficult. We have one that we got while we had the store, and we'd never be able to get another one, or one that will match it. So I'm trying to find one that is traditional in style, but not a sleigh, and in white.
I've given up on being able to sleep comfortably for the time being. Other than that I am feeling pretty good. I still get sleepy early in the evening, but I suppose that will stick with me and probably get worse towards the end of my pregnancy.
My belly is still growing. I've even started to out grow some of my smaller maternity clothes. Craig even commented on how round my belly looks when I'm sitting on the couch. It's funny to me, because I see other pregnant women who have these tiny little bellies yet they are obviously pregnant. That never really applied to me. I started to get my belly at 6 weeks and looked like I was merely gaining weight then boom I had an obvious pregnant belly. I haven't decided yet if that is just the way my body responded or if that is all part of having twins.
I still haven't felt them move yet, but I do feel pressure and bumps when they are in certain positions. Especially at night, they put a lot of pressure on my lower abdomen.
I seem to be gaining back all the weight I lost at a pretty fast rate. I'll probably have gained back all the weight by next week. Which means it took 12 weeks to loose, but only 4 weeks to come back.
Friday, April 24, 2009
15 weeks.
Other than a couple of days of pregnancy brain this has been just an ordinary week. I'm pretty sure next week's picture will show some changes, as well. I'm at the point now that I have a harder time staying comfortable when I sleep. I wake up every couple of hours to change positions.
We are trying to sell Craig's father's Blazer. It's got a little fender damage, but other than that is in great shape. It's a 2001 2-Door, 4wd and only has 56,000 miles on it. We had a lady come and look at it and the guy with her acted like he knew all about cars and told her she shouldn't buy it because of the fender damage. He never even turned on the car or drove it. What are they expecting for $5k, low miles and a $20k body? It's not like a dent on the top of the fender is going to keep it from driving properly. Luckily that's not the only hit we've had on it. Craig it expecting one or two more people to come and look at it this weekend. Wish us luck getting this thing sold and out of our garage (so we can make room for baby things).
Tuesday, April 21, 2009
Pregnancy Brain Runamuck...
First at lunch I made a scrambled egg sandwich, but had to use an extra egg because I dropped one on the floor as I was cracking it.
Then for dinner I put a frozen lasagna in the oven. After about an hour I went to put the garlic bread in and noticed that they lasagna was black and the container it was in was completely melted.
As I went to turn the oven off, I noticed that it was at 550. WHOA!!! I must've hit the knob when I was cleaning the stove and didn't even realize it.
So off to the grocery store for something else for dinner. I came back with much more than I bargained for. Cereal, ice cream, wings, taquitos, eggs, and dinner. I know you're not supposed to go to the grocery store hungry, but its much worse when you're pregnant and hungry.
Monday, April 20, 2009
14 Weeks
Our big ultra sound has been scheduled for May 11th. They will look at the babies' hearts, spinal cords and such. If the babies cooperate, we will also be able to find out their sexes. That appointment is 3 weeks from today.
I also got an Angel Sounds heart monitor from my Mom this week. I think I've got it figured out now so that I can hear both of the babies' heart rates. I've timed them and they are pretty close to the same, which they have been at all the doctor appointments. One of them seems just to the left of my belly button and the other one is about 2 to 3 inches below that.
According to a growth chart I've looked at, this week they are both the size of a lemon, and next week they will be about the size of a navel orange. Also, I should be able to start feeling them move anytime in the next 4 weeks. I will be very relieved once I can start to feel them move.
I've updated the slide show with our 10 week and 14 week pictures. We didn't end up doing a 12 week picture. For some reason the slide show isn't working properly. I will keep messing with it and see if I can get it to work. Until then, if you click on the link that will show you all the pictures, you will be able to see them.
Monday, April 13, 2009
13 Weeks
Oh yes, I am very excited to be shot free!!!! It has only been 4 days and the knots in my back side have already started going away.
I had a doctor appointment on Thursday and was cleared to resume normal activities. The babies are definitely growing, too. They no longer fit on the ultrasound screen at the same time. The doctor didn't take their measurements, but they are definitely much bigger. I wouldn't say that's I'm much bigger, but I can't wear regular shirts anymore. Its a bit of a challenge because I'm not getting wider, only my tummy is growing. So a lot of maternity shirts still look odd on me because they are too wide.
Friday was my first day of freedom. So I decided to go to Walgreens to refill my prenatal vitamin prescription and to the grocery store. Well I only made it to Walgreens because I ended up throwing up in the Walgreens bathroom. The first day of the second tri-mester and the first time I actually got sick. Good news is that I've felt fine ever since.
Our next appointment is May 7th. And they are trying to set up the big ultrasound for May 8th. That is when we will hopefully get to find out the sex of the babies.
Thursday, April 2, 2009
11 and 12 weeks.
The doctors told us that the tear should heal in a week, but I had a little more bleeding on Sunday morning and have had spotting most of the week. We're assuming that means it hasn't completely healed quite yet. I have a doctor appointment one week from today, so we should know more at that time.
I will be 12 weeks tomorrow. I'm really excited because besides being the last week of the 1st trimester, this should also be my last week of injections. The muscle that receives the injections is pretty knotted up and sore most of the time. Don't get me wrong, I'm not complaining. I would do anything to make sure these little ones have the best chance at surviving. I'm just really happy that they are close to the age where they aren't going to need the injections for help anymore and my muscle can start to heal.
For now, I am continuing to follow the no standing for long periods of time, bending, squatting, or stopping rules. Trying to stay in bed or on the couch as much as possible. Craig started out being very proud of himself for keeping up on all the house work, making dinner and taking care of the dogs. This week he's started to slow down. I think he's realizing that its not as easy as it looks on a longer term basis. He's still doing a great job, just not as enthusiastic as he was.
He left today for a short work trip. He'll be back tomorrow, but wanted to make sure I wasn't alone the entire time. So my Mom is coming for a sleep over tonight. The dogs and I will get dinner and I'll still be able to get my shot.
I had some dizziness and vision problems earlier this week. We've pretty much pinned it down to my lack of calories. I'm eating plenty, well as much as my tummy will hold. And I eat every time I'm hungry, but it just doesn't seem to be enough. I've lost a total of 11 pounds so far. Five of which have come off the past 3 weeks. We think the problem is that I'm eating lower calorie foods. I really should be getting 2700 calories a day, and I doubt that I'm even getting 2000 calories. So this next week I'm going to concentrate on eating some higher calorie food. I'm not expecting to really gain any weight, but I need to stop loosing it. Ha, ha, I guess this will probably be the only time in my life I actually have to worry about loosing weight.